Why
is “talkative” found in almost every woman?
Talking about human
being is very unique. Why? The answer is that there is a difference between man
and woman in his/her behavior. The first has the characteristic of rough
while the other does not. It is, in accordance with, the shape of his/her body,
for example: man is bigger than woman, so he must be stronger than she is if
being evaluated by the shape but when evaluated
with the movement, he will do everything faster. It’s called
“Nature
Rules”.
It was created simultaneously with the first man on the earth, Adam.
What about the way of
communicating? Every human being communicates with others. It means that he/she
trades his/her idea. By doing it, he/she will know others, meets them, speaks
to them etc. This activity must have been done for years. There are three kinds
of communications done by human being. They are called direct communication,
indirect communication and gestures.
Direct
communication (D C)
It’s called “direct
communication” ( D C ) because they meet one another, talk to one another
directly. (This activity is done face to face).
Indirect
communication ( I C )
Indirect
communication is an activity done indirectly. It’s no need being “face to face
action”. It can be done using communicative tools, such as: letter, phone,
internet, etc. The writer thinks it is, of course, more practical done
nowadays.
GESTURES
It
is a kind of movement of living things in the world (plant is not included).
The writer takes an example: an animal which is called “a dog” can communicate
with others by the way of barking, smelling etc. It symbolizes something in
connection with communication which can only be known by them.
The
three kinds of communication stated above really exist in the world. The writer
doesn’t know exactly whether or not the plants can communicate with others.
Prof.
Soendjono has stated in his book “ Psiko
Linguistik” that every alphabet/letter if arranged well becomes word, when
it’s continued to do will be phrase.
From the statement above, he concludes that there are many steps to use
when they want to communicate in daily life.
Communication is easy to do but in fact when
talking done, they need a preparation for it. They must use proper words to utter and what words
must be stressed and pronounced correctly.
According to Prof.
Soendjono in his book, stated that every word and phrase spoken has different
meaning. Example: there are three statements having a meaning in every
statement.
Andi is the one/who has got
the first prize/in speech competition.
Andi is the one (It is Andi, not the other and the one here means someone}. He has got the
first prize.{He won the first prize, not the second). He won it
in speech contest. (He joined speech contest, not other contest}.
T
he gal sitting /in front of the
class/ always gets good marks in every
subject.
The gal is sitting (she is doing that
activity at this time ) She is sitting in front
of the class( the position of sitting is in front) She always gets good marks
in every subject, ( she is classified
as the smartest. It is caused by the word “always” and the phrase “good marks” in every subject.
They all know the importance of stressing
the words, the phrases and how to pronounce
it. Actually all of them are very essential to do but Indonesian students are
often aware of them when being taught in class.
Talking
about the title stated above, the writer assumes that woman’s behavior, which
is not rough, is capable to influence those having rough behavior. It’s a kind
of nature-rule stating that rough
can be defeated by smooth.
Written
by riyadi maryanto
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